Don’t Give A Rip What Other People Think

Posted on December 3, 2007 in Laws Of Attraction by byronb

Other people can help or hinder you in doing what’s rightfor you but NO ONE other than you knows what is right for you, and NO ONE otherthan you is looking out for your best interest 100%. No one.This is not meant to scare you, but to liberate and empower you. Once yourealize that everyone is doing what’s right and best for them in that moment,you are free to make your own decisions as to what to do for yourself.

Other people spend an awful lot of time, often with the bestof intentions, trying to make other people conform to their view of how thingsare or should be. This can take the form of artful persuasion or it can takethe form of bloody warfare; either way the root is the same: trying to imposeone’s will on another.

Once we understand the Law of Attraction, once we realizethe awesome creative, reality-shaping power each of us possesses, theimplications of such a statement are stark; people’s lives are being dictatedby other people. How about yours?

Are you letting someone else tell you what to think andbelieve and how to live? Or are you, under the guise of love or morality,trying to decide how other people live? Both circumstances are detrimental tothe joy and fulfillment of all involved.

The more you push against something, the more you validateand therefore strengthen its existence, so in trying to change something aboutanother person you only enforce the very behavior and situations you’re tryingto eradicate. You create the exact opposite of your desired result and, indoing so, reinforce your own belief that the situation is as bad as you thoughtit was.

The way to change the world is to change yourself, not otherpeople; live the life you dream of and the world you live in will mold itselfto the world of your dreams.

One person is not rightand the other wrong. One person’sjudgment does not determine another’s worth. One person’s fulfillment is notdependent on another’s approval and one person’s happiness is not determined byanother’s actions.

You and other people are different for an incrediblyimportant reason, one that’s crucial to the very nature and purpose of life inthe Universe. The contrast and variety we experience, that which seems to causeso much conflict and disagreement, is the only way for us unique extensions ofa singular consciousness to develop preferences and perspectives, the very stuff thatdesires are made of. And that’s what the Universe is made up, after all: theever-changing stuff of our desires.

Here’s how it works with you and your perfect partners increation known as other people:

You change your reality
Other people drawn to your reality gravitatetowards you and help strengthen and expand it
Other people repelled by your reality gravitateaway from you, keeping you free of their encumbering influence on furtherstrengthening and expanding the reality you’ve created.

Isn’t that nice for everyone? Perfect, really.